We all struggle with questions of work/life balance, are we on the right path, what can we change about our personal or professional lives and even is there sanity in the universe. Setting aside the latter (because there obviously is not), how we handle these questions are part of what defines who we are as people. Sure, these aren't the only questions we ask ourselves, but they often cause the most angst because they are typically the most difficult to answer.
I'm not going to spend this post trying to espouse one lifestyle over another. That's 100% your call. Working hard is important, but understanding priorities is similarly so. I know I've had the reputation ever since starting my career at
D&E as somewhat of a "workaholic." To be totally frank with you, I was OK with that label because it meant I was working hard for our clients and the firm.
The older you get, though, the more you realize that workaholic is more of a pejorative term. Do you really want to be working 250 hours a month? Do you want to be constantly tethered to the iPhone or BB? Do you want to be stuck in front of your computer every weekend? I think you'd be hard pressed to answer any of those questions with a "yes." So why do we do it? Is it professional achievement? Are we looking for recognition from our employers? Has it become a habit you can't break? Do you put in countless hours because you love it (I know this is most often my rationale)? Questions I ask myself continuously and you should too.
When I came back from
Blogworld, I had many of these questions in my own head. Several experiences during the BWE week/weekend contributed to the resurrection of these questions, but most importantly it was sometime during that weekend that I realized how little I'd achieved personally. Sure, I loved the work I did for D&E, and now am continuing to build on at
WCG. Wouldn't change those experiences for the world. Yes, I've been promoted a few times and that feels great. I've had an opportunity to work with some amazing clients, and of course that's phenomenal. But, really... what have I achieved personally? I'll spare you the gory details of a 6 year relationship that ended with a broken engagement (unless you really care that much). All I know is that there's been a real lacking of personal achievement in my life so far. And, coming on the heels of the Blogworld experience, I've been wondering if that's because this is how I really want it. I think after almost 3 weeks of asking myself the question I think I'm comfortable saying the answer is "no!"
(Before you coming running after me with a pitchfork, please know that I understand the career I've chosen dictates obscene hours sometimes. I'm OK with that. It's part of the job.)
So you're probably asking yourself where this post fits in with an analytics blog. Guess what? It doesn't so stop trying. Where did it come from then? I was fortunate enough on Friday to watch a video of
Scott Stratten's talk at
TEDxOakville that caused me to think about this very thing (again) all weekend. I wont spoil the video by telling you what it entails. Just know that I'd highly encourage you to check it (click the TEDxOakville link above) out if you're curious about work/life balance perspectives. When you do, come back and answer this question: Are you ready to stop and move things around to accommodate things in your life that are equally as important? For me, the answer is a definitive YES! Enjoy...