So sitting here on a Sunday night, thinking about the week ahead and clearly unable to sleep I turned to my blog. I mean, this is the 21st century, right? Anyway, if you're reading this don't even attempt to try and place it in a timeline of other posts I've done. Don't even try and figure out its relevancy to the charter of this blog, which is to constantly push the envelope on all things analytics... This post is just off the cuff thinking from my brain. If you get something out of it, that's awesome.
I'm (essentially) a week away from my 32nd birthday and, for as much as I joke about it online, that really isn't old by any stretch of the modern imagination. But because I'm a Capricorn (I really don't believe in all that zodiac sign stuff, really) my instrospective side comes out in large doses at this time every year. Have I done everything I can to make the people who are important in my life happy? Have I done everything to make myself happy? What else can I do in the next year to change both of those things? Have I made the people who have inspired me most proud? Just a few of the questions that have bubbled to mind...
That last question actually got me to thinking... Who has inspired me most? There are literally a TON of people who have inspired me during the course of my 31 years and 51 weeks on this earth, but none more so than my grandparents. My grandmother was a 5'0" 100lb (she'd kill me for saying anything more) woman who couldn't have been more giving to the people important to her. My grandfather was a 6'4" 260lb man who was definitely more gruff, but loving all the same. On the outside, they couldn't be more different. On the inside, they couldn't be more alike. What did they teach me?
- Work hard - Shocking, right? Two late depression era grandparents instilling a strong worth ethic. Stunning. News at 11. But really, they always taught me that hard work means getting to do all of the fun stuff that I wanted to do "when I grew up." They were/are right.
- Be charitable - Because of them, I've never had to struggle for anything in my life. So, in my mind, neither should anyone else if I can help it. Food, shelter, clothes. Basically whatever I can give, I'm going to give it. This side has recently been rekindled, and I'm hopeful I can do more in the coming year.
- Worry about others more than yourself - Without getting into a great many details, my grandmother took care of my grandfather until the end. She (and he) cared more about how each other felt and if they were happy than they did their own personal happiness. This attribute in both of them is what I take away most today.
- Be expressive - This should be kind of a "no duh" given this post, and maybe some tweets/Facebook posts you've seen from me, but it's something they also inspired in me. It certainly has come back to haunt me on occasion, but you'll never NOT know how I'm feeling. I've tried to hide it. It doesn't work. :)
- Do the things that make you happy - Sounds simple, but if you want to buy yourself a new TV and you have the means...do it! Life is way too short to not have cool toys!
- Don't bet against Kordell Stewart when he's down nine to Michigan at Michigan - Ok, I needed to close on a fun one... Remember the hail mary thrown by Kordell Stewart against Michigan? I do. Like it was yesterday. I remember my grandfather giving me 10:1 odds that when Colorado was down 10 with about three-to-four minutes to play that Michigan would win. Turns out, I won. Never forget that moment as long as I live.
Moral of this story is don't wait until your birthday to start thinking about who inspires you most. Think about it more often than I do.
No, actually, the real moral of the story is that without my grandparents inspiring me I'm nowhere close to the human being I am today. Here's to them, and to those who inspire you most! Oh, and here's also to another 32... I'm hopeful they are as cool as the first 32.
